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What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 03:59

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.

You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?

Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.

My friend asked my crush and he said my crush hates me but not in a rude way. What does that mean?

If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.

Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?

You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.

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Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?

Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?

Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?

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Because it hurts that they are not with you?

But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.

~KSR

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Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?

If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,

Because only you LOVED?

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Or because they’re happy without you.

Because you were just unlucky in love?

Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

I love getting tired of loving that someone though…

It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.

Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.

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Because you are in sorrow without them?

Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?

If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.

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Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.

Or because she doesn’t love you back?

True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.

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